Husband and Wife Relation
Husband and Wife
As per the Glorious Quran, the motto of marriage is to attain (Peace & Tranquility), this sukun of Husband and Wife relation can never be realized through imprudent sexual fulfilment unless this is not convoyed by mutual love, affection, care & share, and these are all part of fulfilling a productive marriage relationship. We all know Islam is all inclusive from the source & it is a balanced way of looking the things.
Below mentioned 8 important points, can work as the key to strengthen the wedding lock (In Sha’ Allah) and all these points are mentioned either in Quran or authentic Hadiths.
Husband and Wife Attitude
A Muslim always should be thankful to Allah (SBT) for what Allah (SBT) gives to him (or doesn’t), this creates a positive attitude towards life & positive attitude always helps to maintain a healthy relation.
Help Your Wife
It’s always a real “Win-Win” situation, you should follow this point.
Always help your wife in household work whenever you have time, it creates a great bonding between husband and wife, as Allah (SBT) tell us the importance of women and says a pious wife helps her husband and on the other hand, our beloved Prophet (PBUH) stressed the importance of man and shown us how he helped his wives.
Men & Women are ordered to be trustworthy and Allah (SBT) tells us in the Glorious Quran that, follow the example of beloved Prophet (PBUH).
In the case of dignity or respect, only one rule works that is give respect & take respect, so always give respect to your wife if you wish take respect from your wife and it’s totally up to a husband that how he represents to his wife in front of others, only this representation will determine that will your wife be respectable or not.
Under this section we can observe our beloved Prophet’s (PBUH) life, how much he was friendly with his wife Hazrat Ayesha (R.A), our beloved Prophet (PBUH) used to entertain his wife Hazrat Ayesha (R.A) and used to race with her once she won and once our Prophet (PBUH) won. Like this, our Prophet (PBUH) set an example of friendliness with the wives.
Be compassionate towards your wife since this is the very important aspect of Islam as there is a hadith that “Every act of compassion is a charity” Allah knows how to forgive & teach us to forgive so always be compassionate as Allah (SBT) love the forgivers.
Even an ignorant person can tell that yes forgiveness can create a healthy relationship even with your enemy.
“So learn to Forgive & be Compassionate”
Spending time together is an awesome idea to maintain a healthy relationship
- Go for a walk
- Listen to your wife’s old tales (Before Marriage)
- Visit a friend
- Visit your wife’s favourite place
- So Spiritual acts together like read the Glorious Quran with translation.
There can be many more ideas. You will have to find out the best-fitted idea.
Our beloved Prophet (PBUH) used to lead in Salah while being connected to the Mosque. Since our Prophet (PBUH) told us do not make your houses graveyards. Perform Sunnah and Nawafil at home so you may get blessings even at your home. Try to Implement these easy steps to
Try to implement these easy steps to improve your married life & see the difference in your relations (Husband and wife).