Happy Mothers Day 2020
What is Mothers Day
Mother’s Day is an annual event on which mothers are honored by the children, this event was started in North & South America but after few years Britain was also the major part of the world which started this event to celebrate in their country.
Now a days almost every country celebrates this annual event and pay respect to their mothers by wishing happy mother’s day.
Children come up with several mothers day ideas to wish their mothers and honor them with gifts, mothers day greetings with mothers day cards, one of the best gifts is to seek blessing for your mother by doing Chadarposhi on dargah of the saints
When is Mother’s Day celebrated
Most of the countries celebrate Mother’s day or motherhood on second Sunday of May month every year, Mothers Day 2020 the is falling on 12th May.
Different countries celebrate this day on different dates but most of the countries will celebrate mothers day 2020 on second Sunday of may month.
Due to this mass celebration of mother’s day on second Sunday of may month this is considered international mother’s day, but celebration dates may vary in different countries due to time zone and other factors.
When is mothers day celebrated in India and the world
There are so many dates to celebrate mothers day let us see which major countries celebrate mothers day on which dates
Mother’s day traditionally involves gifting flowers, greetings and other gifts
When and where was the first Mothers day celebrated
Mothers day is known with different names such as Mum’s day, Mom day, etc, so don’t get confused all these variations such as Mom day, Mum day is the same event which is celebrated on 2nd Sunday of May month every year.
Mothers day was first introduced in 1900s, so 1908 mother’s day was actually celebrated by Anna Jarvis and first official holiday was declared in America in 1914, Anna Jarvis’s mother always expressed interest for such kind of holiday after her mother passed away.
If your mom passed away for her is the best way to send a gift by sending her blessings for her life hereafter by doing chiragha on dargah of saints.
Anna Jarvis led the movement to make this day as a day of mothers, so the mothers day date also given by her.
I hope and pray that someone, sometime, will found a memorial mother’s day commemorating her for the matchless service she renders to humanity in every field of life. She is entitled to it.
— Ann Reeves Jarvis
For this day lot of poets have written various poems for mothers day in which they have described the love and importance of mothers.
People buy mothers day gifts to present to their mothers that traditionally includes, flowers, cloths, mother’s day cakes etc.
How to celebrate mothers day
Every country has it’s own way celebrate this big day, how ever the common practices are sending mom cards to wish your mother by sending greetings and or preparing mothers day cakes, while you send a special gift to your mum, she feels happy and blessed having a baby like you who cares for them.
What to write on mothers day card
Although there are lot of things to write on mothers day card but the best feeling is to share which you feel for your mum, because self written text on mothers day cards is much better then pre fabricated quotes.
Mothers day homemade card is also a good idea to present to your mother, mothers homemade card reflects your affection and sincerity.
Mother in Islam
Islam has given huge importance to a mother as none other has given, in islam mothers are called as bird paradise which talks and invites her children to the paradise, you should love both of your parents though, but mother has 3 times more importance than your father,
Let us understand importance of mother with the help of few authentic hadiths
Hadiths are the commandments of Prophet Muhammad (Pbuh) to his ummah.
Once a man came to the Prophet and asked, O Messenger of Allah, who is entitled for the best of my companionship? Prophet (Phub) replied: Your Mother, man again asked then who? Prophet again replied: Your Mother, man asked again who next? even third time prophet replied: Your Mother, that man asked fourth time, then who? The Prophet replied: Your Father (Sahih Bukhari)
If we analyse Gold, Silver and Bronze medals go to mother and father will have to be satisfied with consolation prize (Fun Statement)
According to other narrations
Once a man asked Prophet Muhammad about taking part in military campaign upon this Prophet Mohammad (Pbuh) asked him if his mother still alive, man replied in positive Prophet said, “stay with her as paradise is at her feet (Al-Tirmidhi)
The Prophet also said in several events/occasions that “Allah has forbidden for you to be undutiful to your mothers.” (Sahih Al-Bukhari)
So be dutiful to your parents love them take care of them even rewards are huge if you love your parents.
There are several hadiths in which Prophet has also declared the importance of the relatives and relations, he also told that the person who cuts off the relation with his relatives will not enter in paradise.
Mother’s Day and Islam
Although Islam has not specified any date for celebrating mothers day but Allah Ta’ala has made few things very clear in the holy book “Quran” about mother.
So if you observe all those commandments of Allah Subhana hu Wa Ta’ala each day will become mother day for you.
Each day you can celebrate as Thanksgiving Day because every day you are ordered to be grateful to your parents always.
The best mothers day message we can find in Holy Quran that “Allah has forbidden us to be un-dutiful to your mothers”.
This clearly means that you should treat your mother with affection and love never to raise your voice in front of your parents.
If your parents are old do not leave them alone because Allah says in Quran “the time you spend with your parents will lead you to Jannah”
If you just even look with love at you old parents, you are rewarded as you just performed a Hajj.
At last we know that the sacrifice and love a mother gives to her child can never be justified in a single day though, your courtesy to your mother should be shown in every aspect of your life.
But mothers day is a good way to make her feel special with many mothers day activities such cook good food for your mother, or take her out for food you can also fulfill her wish if she has anything related to you.
These kind of mothers day activities make her feel special.
Have a wonderful mothers day “May God grant long life, all comforts of this world and here after to all mothers.